On Scars and Losses


By Anuj Chugh

It’s just the transmutation of the pain by giving it an art form, keeping himself busy in the process. Every inch of it speaks of the deep sorrow. Nobody has any idea how much that pain of loss can kill the inside of a person. Yet it’s a cold, harsh, nasty, judgemental world full of hatred. It takes sheer courage to save yourself from dying bit by bit. And yes there is no recovery, you just learn to live with it. Never underestimate the loss of a person which leaves permanent scars behind. You only realise the beauty of the scars of a person when you yourself have some or have gone through some devastating loss.

Yes, some things are meant to be permanent. The pain. The loss. The scars. They simply never go away. No matter how much ever you try. Yet these are beautiful. They belong to you. They make you ‘you’. I have zero respect and zero tolerance for a person who has no empathy and doesn’t respect anybody’s scars. ‘If you can’t heal them for anyone, haven’t got them yet yourself, you only deserve a kick in the butt by judging somebody for having them. Also, it’s an inseparable part of them. It’s what makes that person beautiful.

If you can’t love that broken part of a person, then you don’t deserve to love any part of him/her.

Anuj Chugh
About the author:- A Teach For India alumnus, Anuj spent two years working in an underprivileged school in Pune, teaching 120 children from the 7th and 8th grade, developing his leadership skills. For 8 years before the fellowship, Anurag was involved in developing and debugging embedded software and hardware as part of various design teams. He is now CEO of Ergoptix Mediquip Pvt Ltd, the manufacturer of Magnifying Loupes and LED Headlamps in India. Bringing awareness of developing the practice of maintaining the correct posture by using magnification at the very inception of the doctor’s dental and medical practice. Feel free to communicate with Anuj by email or via WhatsApp message at +91-9819912872. Read more about Anuj on his personal site.

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