Get beaten up to rise up, and shine ever more brightly. Sometimes, we hit a wall; we are working hard but the progress is not there and life's getting boring and depressing. Almost everyone knows the trauma of hopelessness, injustice, self-pity, insecurity, pain, helplessness and loneliness combined with a pinch of fear. Anyways, this kind of state has a repetitive tendency and always ends up on top of the person, crushing their spirit when it comes.
The best way to avoid injustice from coming into your life, is to be a provider of justice. To become just and fair in it's truest sense. Even if you constantly have to act fearless all of the time, for illusion of fear is the only thing blocking justice all of the time, in all of the situations, universally. Is there any life, so perfect that pain can never enter it no matter how hard 'it' may try ?
Good things only happen when you mentally create space for them to occur in your life. And by creating space, I mean creating the right and proper mental conditioning of your brain. Only then can the physical conditions of your life take shape, according to your desire. Your mind should be programmed for success and not failure. This life is only one, it will happen only once and it is happening now. Please don't let this simple fact slip out of your mind, ever.
What I have felt during my lows at various points in my life, at numerous junctures of my life; is that one has to concentrate more on what one has, rather than what one lacks. It is with respect to all three :-
1) Tangible or Material things
2) Intangible things like innate skills, talent, ability and qualities.
3) And lastly, all the good that has ever happened in your life.
The human mind develops a shot-circuit if too much negativity is allowed to breed within it. Such life is practically a waste, both mentally and physically. If a person gets weak thoughts, feelings and ideas in his / her mind all day long, then how can they be strong physically ? They are in a mess already, in an emotional trap of mismanagement and degradation.
Living life is not easy as there are a few difficult things to be done, to be dealt with, on a daily-routine basis. You will have to make difficult decisions everyday, do challenging stuff and surpass your own expectations. You must set high standards for yourself. Never downgrade or downplay yourself through the vicious circles of self-pity, anxiety, insecurity and despondency.
Confidence is not free, you gotta hunt for your confidence. You gotta find your confidence through such progressive actions, which refuse to bend to the past. The most significant first step to happiness, is to accept thyself as strong and powerful. You are made in the image of God, but have to you accept it first.